Published Tuesday, February 19, 2019 by Tifinie



This may be a challenge for some people, but it is important to be able to let things roll off of your shoulders.  Challenges in life are unavoidable and sometimes they can be discouraging and leave a bad taste in one’s mouth.  No matter how hard one tries to avoid it, though, this kind of situation is bound to happen at some point.  When it does, you have two options:  highlight the negativity or let it go.


It’s easy to want to focus on the negative aspects of an experience, but where will that really get you in the end?  Nowhere.  On the one hand, you may feel that you were taken advantage of or deserve justice and end up wasting days or weeks fretting over the situation only weakening your mind, body, and spirit.  Inevitably, you’ll only become completely frustrated by the situation with no change in results.  On the other hand, you can let it roll off your back and move on with your life giving no more power to it than it deserves.  Accept that sometimes bad things happen to good people, good people make mistakes, life can be unfair, and that it is best to focus on the positivity of life when you can.  Continue to go about your business turning this boulder of a road block into nothing but a little pebble under your tire – things are only as important as you make them.


The better one becomes at letting things go, the easier it will be for them to adjust to things in the future and move on to the next step.  If you can, learn something from the bad experience and then let it be in the past.  Carrying that baggage around with you will only cause it to get heavier and heavier as time passes; while you get weaker and weaker as it wears you down.  While it’s important to stand up for yourself, choose your battles wisely.  If there’s something you can do to change a bad experience then absolutely be a warrior, otherwise accept that that’s how it is and use the experience as a chance to grow and learn strategies for similar situations in the future.  Focusing on it only gives it power, allowing it to mature in to something even worse.  Instead, take what you can from the situation, learn from it, but don’t get stuck on it.  Let it roll off of your shoulders and be stronger despite it





Punctually practicing perfect tongue twisters can help develop superior speech habits. Rapid, repeated pronunciation is proven to strengthen and develop distinguished skills in presentation, which may help you get through a sticky speech or an intellectual interview when your tongue gets tied up on its own.  Have fun with this week’s featured tongue twister!


Davida dives desperately, directly identifying the distant deep end vividly and diligently dividing the dicey depths of darkness

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